Welcome New & Returning members

To The Premier of www.SSGSelect.com
The First and Only Lifestyle Social Dedicated Exclusively for
Swingers Seeking Gentlemen !

Swingers Seeking Gentlemen is the first Lifestyle networking site of it's kind specifically designed for discerning couples and single women interested in meeting quality single gentlemen for consensual pleasurable connections - Anytime and Anywhere!

For Your Eyes Only

We’ve created SSGSelect to be your own private little black book! Women and couples who register and become members on the site will only see single gentlemen, and platinum member profiles. Vice versa, single gentlemen can only see couples and single women’s public profiles. Men cannot see each other, nor do couples and single women see each other.

We’ve designed the site specifically to meet your needs for discretion and privacy while also enabling you to enjoy the freedom and convenience of knowing that you are in control of how little or how much socializing you want to do.

SSGSelect.com is different than other Lifestyle social networking sites geared towards connecting couples with other couples. In fact many Lifestyle events and parties are for ‘couples only’ and do not generally welcome single gentlemen. Many Swingers Clubs charge excessive fees for single gentlemen. Which is a shame because from our first hand experience, many committed couples sometimes want to explore their curiosities and playfulness with other single men and women. It takes time to establish a mutual relationship in which both parties in a couple connect with both people in the other. Why should someone have to “take it for the team” when the team could be enjoying the pleasure of living out their fantasy, no strings attached except to have fun?

Now You CAN-Have it Your Way !!


We are the first to take note and make public a growing trend and desire in the Lifestyle community by providing a platform exclusively for:
  1. Discerning couples and single women seeking quality single gentlemen to play with.
  2. Single gentlemen and women in the Lifestyle who want to make themselves visible and accessible to couples in the Lifestyle.
  3. Lifestyle Event Coordinators, and Party Hosts who want to drive excitement and traffic to their events with select gentlemen who know how to turn up the volume on the fun and excitement, who are socially savvy and who proactively engage, entice, and make pleasurable connections with consenting couples.
  4. SSGSelect Gentlemen, especially our platinum members, are not just single guys looking to hook up, but are well versed in heightening pleasurable encounters, and making new connections between couples and their fantasies while maintaining Lifestyle etiquette and expectations!

Sponsors and Hosts

Are you interested in driving pleasure to your playrooms, hotel takeovers and cruises? How about spicing up your events, private parties, meet & greets with sexy single gen-tlemen, or perhaps you have specialty playrooms and are looking for SSGSelect quali-fied groups of gentlemen who will host and manage your specialty “playrooms”? Per-haps you're looking for travel companions for some of the single women on your re-treat? Maybe you just need a few good men for your photo and video shoots?

Be sure to inquire about our SSGSelect Platinum members! Email: info@ssgselect.com

Women and Couples

Are you seeking consensual pleasurable connections with quality gentlemen? Rather than taking the risk of a hit or miss encounter that occurs when shopping for strangers through classified listservs, or scouring endlessly through profiles on vanilla hookup sites attempting to read between the lines for truth and specialty experience… now, you can have it your way. Wherever You Go - We Are Here To Pleasure You !

That's right. Whether you are seeking one on one connection, playing with multiples, or simply someone to explore the lifestyle with attending private parties, hotel & cruise takeovers, club meet & greets, adult only resorts, travel and beyond, SSGSelect has got you covered... Anytime and Anywhere!